Showing posts with label Personal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Personal. Show all posts

Monday, 9 June 2014

Before and After: The Nursery

We finished remodelling our little cottage a while ago. But, I have realised it takes a while to truly finish. It's little things like hanging curtains, shelves, and art that take forever. And I wanted to have all of those little things done before I posted the "Before & After" shots.

So, in honour of hanging the final shelf last weekend, I give you...the nursery.

I put a lot of thought into what James' room would look like. I wanted it to be seaside inspired, masculine, not overly baby-ish, bright and very cosy. I was inspired by Jon Contino's "Born Free" print, this nursery, and loved the way the large pelican print looked in this nursery. I already had the anthropologie plates, the brackets, and one of the prints. And I used Pinterest to be sure what everything would look like before making final purchases.

I love the way this room came together. It's exactly the space I wanted for our little one.

Pin It

Saturday, 7 June 2014

We grew a strawberry...

Everyone knows about British weather; it's incredibly unpredictable. But, I have learned two things about weather since moving here: 1) when it's nice, it's spectacular; and 2) the plants love it.

It has taken two summers, but this year I'm taking advantage. I planted strawberries, tons of tomatoes, rosemary, lavender, mint, thyme, and various purple and pink-flowering plants. I am hoping to add a couple of basil plants this week. And the roses we planted last year are thoroughly enjoying themselves.

I love having endless fragrant blooms to fill my bud vases, and loads of delicious little gems to snack on. Yay summer! C'mon tomatoes!

Pin It

Tuesday, 6 August 2013

Maternity Leave

 






I haven't been here in a while. However, I have a good excuse: We had a baby; a sweet little boy. And he has made me busier than I have ever been. It's amazing how difficult it is to find the time to do anything that requires two hands (e.g. type). But, I'm back now...

Is having a baby different in England than it is in America? In a word, yes.

The short version:
American: "Would you like an epidural?"
British: "Would you like a paracetamol (Tylenol)?"

Nothing could have fully prepared me for it; it is the most amazing, crazy, beautiful, life-changing thing I have ever experienced. And I'm loving it.
Pin It

Sunday, 24 February 2013

A Delicious Ray of Sunshine


It's the time of year when apples get a bit mealy, and I start to crave all things citrus. Why is it that these little guys, straight from the fridge, are so satisfying? They're desert-level delicious.

Pin It

Saturday, 23 February 2013

Moving to the UK: Some Tips


The other day I read a post on one of my favourite sites—Animals Talking in all Caps—describing the author's pain and incredible stress at waiting to hear from the UK Border Agency (UKBA) on a visa request so he could join his wife.

Let's just say, I could feel his pain. I have definitely been there. And, this inspired me to write down a few things that would have made my life much easier had someone told me:

1) If there is an option to expedite, expedite. Always. Especially with the UKBA. Yes, it's far more expensive. But, it will cost you far more money, time, and stress in the long run if you don't.

Remember, you won't have any of your important documents (i.e. the ones you need to get a job, get a driving license, travel, etc.) until they're done with your application; which could take months.

2) If you're thinking of changing your name (i.e. marriage) and you already have a Biometric Residence Permit (BRP) consider the following:

a) You have to change your name on your passport first (no big deal). However, b) the names on your passport and BRP must match for you to be allowed to travel. There is no guarantee that you'll get back in the country if they don't. c) There is no option to expedite getting a replacement BRP, for name change or otherwise. d) You can not check on the status of this type of application unless it has been more than 6 months and they are clearly not given priority. Meaning, you will have no idea whether your application and documents are actively being processed, stuck on someone's desk, or simply lost.

When I did mine, the UKBA had my documents for 5 months. I couldn't get a job or a driving license (you need your passport and BRP for these) and since I couldn't travel, I missed my honeymoon, a funeral, and a wedding. We finally had to contact our MP to help speed the process.



3) Do not, under any circumstances, lose your BRP. Refer back to tips #2c and d.

4) If you have an American driving license, you can drive in the UK using only your passport for a limited time. Then, you have to get a British driving license. This means one day you will be considered an experienced and capable driver, and the next it will be like you're 16 again.

You have to start from scratch and take the written test, then the road test. That's right. I recommend doing this as early as possible, and taking a few lessons so you know what they expect to see. It's not hard, but it is a process.

5) If you are American, you must file a US tax return reporting your worldwide income every year, forever. You won't necessarily have to pay US taxes, but you will have to file and report. Got to love the IRS! I recommend getting some advice and assistance come tax time.

That's everything I can think of at the moment...

Life in the UK is amazing; I absolutely love it. But, I have learned that life in America can instill a certain—rather high—level of expectation when it comes to service, efficiency, and speed of delivery. Thus, the speed of British life can come at a bit of a shock.

Just remember: Brits don't mind calmly standing in queues, don't expect anything service-related to happen quickly, and really aren't all that worried about it. You know, keep calm, carry on, stiff upper lip, and so on.

Don't worry, you'll get used to it. Eventually, you might even come to appreciate it.

PS: These tips are based on my personal experiences and the requirements in place at the time. They are only meant to make you aware of possible issues. You'll need to do your own research.

Pin It

Thursday, 14 February 2013

There's a baby in there!


...is what I said at our first ultrasound. That's right. For those of you who don't know already, I'm pregnant. And, as we've just passed the eight month mark, I thought it would be a good time to illustrate how US and UK approaches to pregnancy differ.

As you would expect, the American approach is very American: lots of joy, exclamation points, empathy, and pain management. And the British approach is of course, very British: stiff upper lip, no big deal, and just get on with it—I mean, it's only a baby.

For example, we initially discovered we were pregnant in the usual way—by peeing on a stick. Assuming we needed immediate medical intervention, confirmation by blood tests, and advice, we made an appointment with the doctor:
Me: We think I'm pregnant.
Doc: Ok. Did you wee on a stick and it said you were pregnant?
Me: Yes.
Doc: Then, you're pregnant.
Me: Ummmm...ok...now what?
Doc: Now what, what? Go home and be pregnant. Congratulations.

Yeah. Let's just say, I've said "What?!" a lot.

PS: Happy Valentine's Day!

Pin It

Saturday, 24 November 2012

Read's in Faversham










Read's "restaurant with rooms is set in an elegant Georgian manor house, surrounded by tranquil grounds..." The décor is a gorgeous, cozy mix of vintage and traditional; the food and wine are exceptional; and the chef will accommodate gluten allergies without compromising the cuisine—no consolation prize dinners, here. 

A year ago, we had our wedding reception at Read's. The food was perfect, the wine was perfect, our day was perfect. 

This year was no different. We spent an evening at Read's to celebrate our first anniversary, and it couldn't have been more lovely.

Happy anniversary, sweet Huw. Here's to many many more.

Pin It

Wednesday, 10 October 2012

Burnham Market, Norfolk



















We just got back from a week in Burnham Market. And, it's safe to say we'll be visiting there again. It had everything we were looking for in a holiday: extremely good (and gluten free friendly) food, quiet, cozy, and near the sea.

We stayed at the Hoste Arms, and spent our days eating, relaxing, exploring the local area, and hiking through the dunes by the sea.

It was beautiful, peaceful, and remarkably Cape Cod-esque; a perfect holiday.

Pin It